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Agnostic Weddings is a wedding officiant based in Long Beach, California.

Your Fairytale Wedding Without the Fairy Tale

Hello, Rationalists, Humanists, Agnostics, Atheists, Pastafarians and other Freethinkers! I'm Sasha, your friendly neighborhood atheist, and I've been marrying couples since 2002. My clients love my custom ceremony creation process, which offers both guidance and imaginative freedom as we co-create your one-of-a-kind ceremony script. I work exclusively with couples who want a secular ceremony, including interfaith couples compromising on a religion-free wedding, folks who describe themselves as "spiritual, but not really religious," or Atheists with a capital "A." Your ceremony will reflect your unique beliefs, personalities, and quirks, and your guests will feel included in something special.

I'm a huge nerd, and I love working with couples who want to do something different that really feels like *them* in their wedding ceremony. I've married folks in best friends double weddings, on a gondola, in a hot air balloon, in costume, and helped couples delight and surprise their guests with all manner of silliness and whimsy.....without descending into cheeseball comedy-hour shenanigans (unless that is your jam, in which case GAME ON.) It's your wedding day, so my job is to help YOU shine....and luckily, that is my specialty.

And of course Agnostic Weddings is inclusive, supportive, and affirming of the LGBTQIA+ community in all of our spectacular diversity!

Agnostic Weddings serves all of California. Please reach out to request your free consultation so that we can talk about your vision - I am committed to helping your wedding dreams come true!

Yours in Reason,

Sasha

  • LGBTQ+-owned
  • Woman-owned
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Frequently asked questions

What is the typical price for your wedding services?

$700

What is the starting price for your wedding services?

$650

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Vow Renewal

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
No Denomination

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

CA

What languages do you speak?

English
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Sarah W. Sent on 11/19/2022
5 out of 5 rating

A fantastic officiant

There are some wedding vendors where you book them and think "fingers crossed, hope they're good" and then there are other wedding vendors where you book them and think "100% best decision ever, this is going to be awesome!" Sasha is 100% one of the latter. We reached out to chat with her, and had an hour long Zoom consultation with her. She was so easy to talk to, made an effort to get to know us, and totally got what we were going for. My husband and I are non-religious nerds and wanted our wedding ceremony to feel like "us" - meaningful and heartfelt, but without any overly spiritual references we couldn't identify with. Sasha's process for customizing our ceremony was really great, and we really appreciated her review of our vows before hand. Our wedding ceremony was perfect. She tried to help us keep our minds off our nerves before the ceremony. It was kind of a blur from our end, but our friends and family loved it - one of our friends even commented that Sasha could be on NPR, which I think is one of the highest compliments possible. She also handled the mailing of our marriage license which was much appreciated - just one less thing to worry about! Sasha was well worth every penny!
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Melanie Sent on 08/24/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Sasha is the best!

We hired Sasha as the officiant for our wedding on 8/20/2022. She spent a lot of time getting to know us so she could personalize the ceremony to match our personalities. She also outlined exactly how the planning process and ceremony was going to go, which was reassuring since we were not sure what we wanted for the ceremony initially. She had some great ideas that helped us plan everything out, and the script we came up with was absolutely perfect. We even included in a few jokes! We got so many compliments on how much the ceremony fit us as a couple. We were very happy working with Sasha and would definitely recommend her. Thanks again!
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L B Sent on 03/02/2022
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Sasha is perfection!

We used Sasha for our wedding back in Sept 2021. It was a super intimate small wedding (20 people) and we were planning on just jumping on the sand for the ceremony. We decided to go with Sasha because we are both non-religious and wanted family to enjoy the day with no pressure to perform.

We met with Sasha (meet and greet via zoom since we are in the Bay Area, wedding in Orange County), hammered out a script, and she helped us out with vows as well. Unfortunately day-of she had a potential covid exposure, and we decided for the safety of our guests to not have her come. However, Sasha dropped by for a no-contact drop off of the script (in a nice keepsake book) so an ordained family member attending could step in, and even called a few days later to check in. Sasha went above and beyond and I could not be happier with how things turned out even with a pivoted plan. Thank you Sasha!
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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2018 Winner
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3 Endorsements
Moxie Bright Events Moxie Bright Events Wedding Planners

Sasha is a total pro. She makes her clients feel heard and respected - many times my Bride remarked to me "She really just "gets" us"! She is calm and warm, and her ceremony delivery was pitch-perfect. I would recommend Sasha to anyone without hesitation.

Christine Arnold Photography Christine Arnold Photography Wedding Photographers

Sasha was absolutely delightful to work with and her ceremony was so sweet, the couple were over the moon with their wedding thanks to Sasha's thoughtful planning. I look forward to working with Sasha again

Swellegant Events Swellegant Events Wedding Planners

Calm. Collected, and totally cool. Sasha brings warmth and personalization to every wedding ceremony. I have had the honor of working with her, and she made my clients feel loved, calm, and well taken-care of. She is part of my www.swellegant.com preferred vendor list because I trust and believe that she will help you create your perfect wedding ceremony.

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