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Over 875 ceremonies since 2007

Your wedding ceremony can be as unique as your love story! I specialize in creating a personalized ceremony that reflects the love and life you've built, the real foundation of your marriage.

I've believe that your wedding ceremony should genuinely mirror the love and life you've made together. Through an open conversation, we'll delve into your love story; tell me what you think and feel about one another. I listen and take extensive notes of your impressions, how you met, what you've grown to love, appreciate, and respect about one another, how your individual traits and qualities complement each other, and how you enhance each other’s lives. I'll offer suggestions to create a polished ceremony that not only pays tribute to your love but also strengthens your connection, leaving a lasting impression on you and your loved ones.

I'm a skilled interviewer and writer focused exclusively on crafting very personalized wedding ceremonies. I'm also an extensively experienced public speaker who knows every aspect of what a complete wedding ceremony requires of an officiant. And with inspiration from a rich history of past weddings I've conducted, I can offer you a wealth of unique options and fresh spins on any wedding tradition.

Check out my reviews and contact me today, I’d love to hear your plans!

Vows

I arrange a variety of personalized choices and versions of how you can say "I do" to one another.

Personal Vows

If you are considering writing your own vows, I'll provide you with detailed guidance to help you express your deepest sentiments.

Special Ceremonies

I can incorporate or reframe traditions so that they are even more meaningful to you or present new ideas you've never seen before.

Readings

I'll provide you with a unique selection of marriage and love related readings and will suggest creative ways to blend them into your ceremony.

The Marriage License

I give you precise, easy instructions on how to obtain your license anywhere in California. I carefully supervise the witness requirements and process your license with the appropriate County Clerk/Recorder office.

Rehearsal coordination

If you need a rehearsal, I'm very skilled at organizing and directing everyone so that your ceremony unfolds smoothly and I work with all planners.

Vendor partners

I've worked with countless other wedding services professionals and am happy to give you any referrals.

Contact me right now, as my calendar books up early.

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Frequently asked questions

What is the typical price for your wedding services?

$595

What is the starting price for your wedding services?

$395

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$95

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$95

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Buddhist
Earth-Based
Hindu
Jainism
Jewish
No Denomination
Pagan
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.
30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

AZ
CA
OR
WA

What languages do you speak?

English
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Reviews of Marriage With Meaning

4.9 out of 5 rating
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2024 Winner
4.9 out of 5 rating
189 Reviews
99% recommend it
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Paul is highly recommended by multiple reviewers for officiating weddings. He is described as easy to talk to, invested in learning about couples' love stories, and open to collaborating on personalized vows. Reviewers praise his graciousness, professionalism, and ability to bring love stories to life during ceremonies. Many guests assumed he was related to the couple due to his heartfelt and personalized ceremonies. Paul's attention to detail, calm presence, and seamless execution of ceremonies contribute to making couples' wedding days unforgettable.

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This AI-generated summary gives you a snapshot of the overall ratings and feedback from the reviews this vendor has received.

Paul is highly recommended by multiple reviewers for officiating weddings. He is described as easy to talk to, invested in learning about couples' love stories, and open to collaborating on personalized vows. Reviewers praise his graciousness, professionalism, and ability to bring love stories to life during ceremonies. Many guests assumed he was related to the couple due to his heartfelt and personalized ceremonies. Paul's attention to detail, calm presence, and seamless execution of ceremonies contribute to making couples' wedding days unforgettable.

Justise
Justise O. Sent on 05/19/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Professional and genuine

Paul is nothing short of amazing. He is kind and genuine. We found Paul on The Knot and Wedding Wire and he was highly recommended by our wedding planner Jade Preciado.

We had two phone consultations with him prior to our wedding ceremony. During the first one we got to talk about his service and his process and decide if we were a good fit. During the second call my fiancé and I both spoke with him. We shared our love story and some things that make us unique as a couple.

Just by using these two short interactions, Paul, created the perfect wedding ceremony. It was personalized for us and I got to pick from about three different sets of vows. He took all our requests into consideration and he was easy to work with.
Chelsea
Chelsea F. Sent on 01/23/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful Ceremony

Paul was an absolute pleasure to work with. From our first phone conversation, he immediately made us feel comfortable and at ease. He was responsive and gave us great tips/made the process simple. On our wedding day, his energy was so kind, genuine, and warm. The ceremony he put together was everything we could have hoped for. It was truly touching and beautiful. Both of our families loved him and the ceremony. It was so special. Highly recommend!
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Karissa F. Sent on 02/09/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Thank you, Paul!

We had originally hoped to have a friend or family officiate our wedding but could not settle on who would be the right fit so we started looking for an officiant online. After reading Paul's reviews we reached out and he arranged a time for us to chat via video. He was so easy to talk to and seemed truly invested in learning about our love story. Once he was hired it was easy to communicate and Paul provided several options for our vows which he was open to collaborating with us on to fit our needs. The day of the ceremony Paul was so gracious and came to check in with both of us before the ceremony started. He did such a great job bringing our story to life and there was no shortage of tears and smiles. Many of our guests thought that Paul was somehow related to one of us and were surprised to find out we had only met him once via our video call! We will cherish your special words at our special day forever. Thank you, Paul!
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2024 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2023 Winner
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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2021 Winner
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Professional Network & Endorsements

8 Endorsements
Amanda Holder Events Amanda Holder Events Wedding Planners

I finally had the pleasure of working with Paul on a recent wedding and was so impressed. We have very similar philosophies about how a wedding day should go. Smooth, easy, not rushed. He took a page right out of my book, reminding the couple to breathe and take it all in. His calm, cool demeanor was appreciated. Paul just has an amazing energy about him. I would definitely recommend him to future clients, and hope to work with him again very soon! Update 9/10/18: I had the pleasure of working with Paul again this past weekend and it was absolutely flawless. He has such an ease about him, which is not only appreciated by me and my staff, but the couple and their guests, as well. I had several guests approach me and tell me what a great job he did. He just simply knocks it out of the park every time. :)

Spreafico Farms Spreafico Farms Barn & Farm Weddings

I have had the pleasure of working with Paul many different times and it is always a great experience. He is one of the nicest people that I have met and is extremely professional. He is always at the rehearsal the day before the wedding to make sure that everything goes flawless for the big day. You can tell that he is extremely passionate about what he does and you can assure that your ceremony will go smoothly and be full of passion and love with Paul leading the way. I would highly recommend him for anyone that is searching for an officiant, you will not be disappointed!

Captivating Videography Captivating Videography Wedding Videographers

Paul was GREAT to work with! He was friendly, professional and has a great sense of humor. We loved working with him and highly recommend him.

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