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Important life events don't have to be so serious in order to be taken seriously.

We live in a heavy world.

Why not bring a little levity to your event?

With Marry Unordinary officiating, you will experience moments of laughter, thoughtfulness, love, joy, reminiscence ... and probably a little bit of good-natured embarrassment too.

We are ordained, experienced, secular in nature, and focused on telling your love, life, or event story in an interesting, humorous, touching, and personalized way.

About Us

Marry Unordinary is a professional wedding officiant service based in San Diego, California. Jill Bolger, the owner of the service, is a highly experienced and ordained professional who strives to curate a ceremony that truly reflects your relationship. Marry Unordinary coordinates wedding events with a personalized touch, focusing on the finer details for every client to ensure their genuine happiness.


Services Offered

This California-based service makes it a priority to develop a personal connection with you, gaining an authentic understanding of your individual style and taste. Marry Unordinary understands that each wedding is distinctly unique and allows couples to perform their own vows, setting an intimate tone for their special day. Jill services a wide spectrum of wedding events including ceremony rehearsals and vow renewals, serving non-denominational couples.

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Frequently asked questions

What is the typical price for your wedding services?

$700

Which of the following are included in the price?

Ceremony Rehearsal

What is the starting price for your wedding services?

$700

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

Yes

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
No Denomination

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

CA

What languages do you speak?

English
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Jill of "Mary Unordinary" is highly recommended as an officiant for weddings. She is praised for her excellent communication, personalized and fun ceremonies, and ability to engage guests. Reviewers were impressed with Jill's professionalism, the sentimental and humorous elements of their ceremonies, and the overall positive experience. Many guests commented that it was the best ceremony they had ever witnessed. Jill is described as someone who takes the time to get to know couples and delivers a ceremony that feels personalized and true to their story.

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Jill of "Mary Unordinary" is highly recommended as an officiant for weddings. She is praised for her excellent communication, personalized and fun ceremonies, and ability to engage guests. Reviewers were impressed with Jill's professionalism, the sentimental and humorous elements of their ceremonies, and the overall positive experience. Many guests commented that it was the best ceremony they had ever witnessed. Jill is described as someone who takes the time to get to know couples and delivers a ceremony that feels personalized and true to their story.

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Matthew T. Sent on 03/11/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful!

For my wife and I, our wedding was our big day-- but Jill definitely tried to steal the limelight as all the guests (and vendors) were completely blown away by how great the ceremony was, it was the #1 thing people complimented. And my wife and I agree, Jill put together a ceremony that was better than we ever imagined. We wanted something vulnerable and funny, and she was able to provide exactly that. She was extremely attentive to all of our wants and was able to craft a ceremony that captured our story and love.

In addition to all of the wonderful things about the ceremony, Jill is a wonderful person; thoughtful, timely, diligent, clear. She communicated with vendors and really took control of the entire process. She was responsive and we never worried about her ability to deliver on exactly what she said.

In the end, we are so thankful that we went with Jill and she is now a part of our beautiful story. We will always be honored by how much effort she put into our day and we don't have any words to really capture our gratitude.

Thanks so much Jill!!

-Matalie
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Corey L. Sent on 11/20/2022
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"Best Ceremony Ever" was our guest feedback!

Before we get to the ceremony piece, it's important to note that Jill of "Mary Unordinary" was on top of everything and not once were we worried about her communication and instructions. Clearly she's been doing this a while and we were in very very good hands prior to the wedding!

We are non-religious and really wanted something light-hearted and fun for our wedding day. Boy did Jill deliver! We laughed, we teared, it was a perfect mix of telling our story, laughing about who we are together and yet still delivering sentimental, poignant words/vows to each other in front of our guests.

In the end, it was exactly what we wanted and many of our guests told us (to paraphrase) that it was the best ceremony they'd ever seen.

Would highly recommend Mary Unordinary if you're looking for a less traditional, more modern and fun ceremony that will generate a wonderful balance of laughter and tears!
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Angela Sent on 01/08/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Best officiant in the world!

I knew we would hire Jill the moment we got off our first call. She is so easy to talk to, a great listener & story teller, and she has a great energy to her all around! She was so amazing at engaging our guests. She had all of us laughing, smiling, and crying. Our guests thought we had been friends for years with the way she put our story together, so personal and heart felt. We wanted someone that we would make us feel comfortable in front of so many people and Jill was just that! She is such a great public speaker and truly great at what she does. Would highly recommend her to anyone/everyone we know!
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