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About

On WeddingWire since 2007

It's true, fun couples like you want a wedding that is authentic, comfortable, personalized, and upbeat rather than something boring, stiff, and cookie-cutter. Let’s team up and create something you’ll always treasure. Take a look at the reviews and videos here as well as on my website and you’ll see what I mean. You don’t get that big day back, and I’m looking forward to helping you crush it! :)

Experience
Rev. Jay Bowman completed his undergraduate studies at Asbury University in Kentucky, following up with seminary work at North Park Theological Seminary in Chicago. Through a small but solid denomination with Swedish Lutheran roots, he got his ordination credentials. With decades of experience in the church, he is now having the time of his life celebrating personalized weddings from two to 200.

Services Offered
Rev. Jay Bowman performs several wedding types, such as civil unions, interfaith ceremonies, vow renewals, and many more. The licensed reverend also helps couples with customizing their vows upon request.

Frequently asked questions

What is the typical price for your wedding services?

$440

What is the starting price for your wedding services?

$395

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$295

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Anglican
Baptist
Catholic
Episcopalian
Evangelical
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
Mormon
No Denomination
Orthodox Christian
Presbyterian
Quaker

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

FL
NC

What languages do you speak?

English
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1,190 Reviews
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92% Recommended by couples
Kelsie
Kelsie Sent on 05/16/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Truly, no one else can compare!

Rev. Jay was the absolute best! From the first time we met him we were made to feel special and very confident on how our day would go. You could tell this is not just a way to make a living for him, he cares deeply and wants to express your love in the best way. He connected with us and felt like family. He has a great sense of humor but also perfect sensitivity in those touching moments. He elegantly guided the ceremony making things light with humor when emotions ran high and gracefully transitioned back to capturing the importance of the moment. We cannot give enough praise and thanks to this man. Thank you so much Rev. Jay!!! Love, Kelsie & Josh- 05.12.23”
Rich
Rich N. Sent on 07/07/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Super awesome

If we could add stars to the review we would. We had the best experience with Rev Jay. Jay made the day very special for us. He included our 3 children, made them feel very important and part of the ceremony. We can’t thank you enough Rev Jay. To sum this up YOU ROCK🤙🤙🤙
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Michelle G. Sent on 02/24/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful!

Jay was very professional and our ceremony was a dream. We felt as if Jay was a part of our family! The ceremony flowed very well. My husband and I felt comfortable throughout the entire process. Thank you Jay!
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Professional Network & Endorsements

47 Endorsements
Hairoics Salon & Spa Hairoics Salon & Spa Wedding Hair & Makeup

Rev. Jay Bowman encompasses everything you could ask for in a wedding officiant. We consider Jay to be the gold standard! The ceremony that he performs will resonate with the Bride, Groom, family and guests throughout the years to follow.

Black Pelican Catering Black Pelican Catering Wedding Caterers

As we work many of the caters on the Outer Banks are blessed to work with so many different vendors. Rev Jay Bowman is most definitely one of the best (if not the best) wedding officiants on the whole OBX. He not only makes your day one of a kind, he also makes you feel like he is part of the family!! We have and always will refer Rev Jay Bowman as the first pick for officiants!

Roanoke Island Festival Park Roanoke Island Festival Park Park & Outdoor Weddings

Rev. Jay does a top notch job. We always enjoy having him out to Festival Park

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