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Artist at Heart • Lover of Nature • Evolving Human

Mary Ellen Deckelmann, MA – is an Officiant, Minister, Celebrant – who will add a contemporary, inspiring, and fun feel to your Wedding Ceremony since 1995.

Being a “Love” and or Relationship Happiness Coach makes it easy for her to connect with you and to find out what is truly important for you in the life you are creating together in Love.

Mary Ellen is dedicated to the magic and the spirit of deep-human-connections and because of this she is able to evoke a feeling of sacredness – love and ritual that is joyful, light-hearted, and friendly.

She brings fresh ideas to communicating your Love-Story in your ceremony – as she is whimsical, soulful, wise, and highly professional.

She honors all paths that lead to love and commitment. She has performed over 1600 plus Weddings throughout the Northwest & Maine which add to her relaxed, creative, kind, and meaningful style.

Mary Ellen grew up in Tanzania, Spain, Turkey, Sri Lanka, and Oregon.

She is a student of human potential, consciousness, and mindfulness – which adds to her expanded world-view and capacity to work graciously with her diverse clientel who are from all-over-the-world.

She loves nature and beauty – and knows so many spectacular locations in nature for your Ceremony or an exquisite venue.

Mary Ellen is so much more than your classic Officiant – she is more of a choreographer of ceremony - a day-of-coordinator – who loves to ensure your ceremony is well organized – flows effortlessly, and touches the hearts of everyone present.

She orchestrates beautiful ceremonies of Love with grace and ease – as the ceremony she creates will be a unique expression of your love and who you are.

www.weddingwithheart.com

maryellen@weddingwithheart.com

Services Offered
Mary Ellen is licensed to practice in the states of California, Hawaii, Maine, Oregon, and Washington. She has experience creating non-religious ceremonies, interfaith ceremonies, vow renewals, civil unions, same-sex unions. ceremonies, , Buddhist, Earth-Based, Non-Denominational, Boho and Pagan ceremonies.

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Frequently asked questions

What is the typical price for your wedding services?

$395

What is the starting price for your wedding services?

$199

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$150

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$150

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Buddhist
Earth-Based
No Denomination
Pagan

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

CA
HI
ME
OR
WA

What languages do you speak?

English
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Reviews of Weddings with Heart & Elope Bend

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Mary Ellen Deckelman is highly recommended by multiple reviewers as an officiant for wedding ceremonies. She is praised for her personalized and meaningful approach, taking the time to get to know the couple and tailoring the ceremony to their relationship. Reviewers appreciate her professionalism, organization, and ability to make them feel comfortable on their special day. Mary Ellen's ability to coordinate with other vendors and her flexibility in accommodating different requests are also commended. Overall, she is described as a caring and invested officiant who creates a beautiful and memorable experience for couples.

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Mary Ellen Deckelman is highly recommended by multiple reviewers as an officiant for wedding ceremonies. She is praised for her personalized and meaningful approach, taking the time to get to know the couple and tailoring the ceremony to their relationship. Reviewers appreciate her professionalism, organization, and ability to make them feel comfortable on their special day. Mary Ellen's ability to coordinate with other vendors and her flexibility in accommodating different requests are also commended. Overall, she is described as a caring and invested officiant who creates a beautiful and memorable experience for couples.

Miranda
Miranda A. Sent on 03/07/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful!

Mary Ellen was exceptional. She is incredibly knowledgeable and helped us curate vows that were perfect for us. She is a genuinely kind and delightful person and made our day special. Highly recommend using her services for your special day.
Lorie
Lorie O. Sent on 10/20/2023
5 out of 5 rating

The perfect officiant!

Mary Ellen Deckelman was the PERFECT officiant for our special day. We wanted to keep our ceremony personal to us. Mary Ellen spent time with us beforehand getting to know both of us & our relationship. She tailored our ceremony to our personal relationship and location..... It was magical. Thank you Mary Ellen!!! We wouldnt hesitate in recommending her for your special day.
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Alyssa M. Sent on 09/08/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Great experience!

We loved working with Mary Ellen to create our perfect ceremony. She really takes the time to get to know you as a couple, and is dedicated to making sure that your ceremony is exactly how you want it. The day of she was punctual, professional, and really made us feel comfortable. Would recommend Mary Ellen to any couples in Central Oregon looking for an officiant for their special day!
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7 Endorsements
Creative Images of Life Creative Images of Life Wedding Photographers

Mary Ellen is always professional and wonderful to work with. I have worked with her on a few weddings and I like her style and how she engages the couple and guests in the ceremony to make the memories of their beautiful day even more special.

Black Butte Ranch Black Butte Ranch Barn & Farm Weddings

Mary Ellen is wonderful to work with and has preformed many ceremonies at Black Butte Ranch. Couples enjoy her fun approach, and she develops a wonderful relationship with the couples she works with.

Bella Brides Bella Brides Wedding Dresses

Mary Ellen is a true gem! She is a wonderful woman who will give your wedding the time and attention for a truly beautiful ceremony! You'll certainly be in good hands!

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