Is it weird that I got married 5 months ago, and I still don't feel like a wife? I mean I care about my husband, but at the same time I am getting tired of always being around him. I want my space and want to get away to hang out with people other than him. When we go out and people ask me hows married life, I don't have an answer because I don't feel any different than when we were just dating. I could care less where he goes or who he goes with....We don't have shared finances, mostly because he can't control his $ and I have worked hard to earn and keep mine. We do have a joint account, but it's strictly for bills. If he wants something we don't really discuss it, he just gets it. I just feel like something is missing, that shouldn't be..Honestly, it takes me a while to even realize who MRS. (insert husband last name) is because I don't associate my identity that way. Please advise.